The Both/And Set
Details
A gift of grounding and truth for the mother who holds so much, so quietly
Motherhood is full of contradictions—moments of beauty and breakdown, presence and overwhelm, deep love and longing.
This set doesn’t ask her to choose.
It reminds her she’s allowed to feel all of it.
Inside, she’ll find:
A Daily Reminder that Your Feelings Make Sense
Powerful words that reflect what most mothers are never told:
You’re not failing because it’s hard. You’re feeling—and that means you're human.
Something she can glance at daily and exhale.
A Both/And Candle to Hold the Beauty and the Mess
Feeling it all doesn’t make you wrong. It makes you real.
A quiet flicker of warmth to anchor her on the harder days—and celebrate her on the better ones.
Together, these pieces offer emotional grounding.
Not to fix. Not to advise.
But to witness, to honor, and to remind her that she’s doing beautifully.
Perfect for:
- Treating YOURSELF
- Baby showers
- Birthdays
- Postpartum or motherhood care
- Holidays
- Or for any moment that calls for feeling held, not fixed
Because she doesn’t need to be perfect.
She just needs space to feel what’s real.
Materials & Care
Candle
- 4oz apothecary jar with cork lid
- Eco-friendly, 100% natural soy wax
- Clean-burning cotton wick
- Burn time: 20–30 hours
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Scent: Fizz + Glitz — a nostalgic sparkle of holiday glamour with fizzy spice and warmth
- Top Notes: Fresh citrus, cinnamon sticks, sheer clove
- Middle Notes: Cola accord, fizzy aldehydes, jasmine, rose
- Base Notes: Amber, cedar leaf, sandalwood, musk
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Made in the USA with globally sourced components
Slate
- Natural slate stone with rough-cut edges
- Dimensions (with stand): 5.5" x 5.9"
- Vibrant, fade-resistant sublimation print
- Includes a black display stand
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Each piece is unique due to natural slate variation
Candle Safety
- Burn within sight - do not leave unattended.
- Keep away from children, pets, and flammable objects
Shipping + Returns
Each item is made just for you, so we’re unable to accept returns or exchanges.
If your order arrives damaged or incorrect, please contact us within 15 days at coach@thenonlinearjourney.com. We truly care about your experience and will always do our best to make it right.